Seriously... what is going on here?

Has anyone else noticed an obscene amount of tragedy in recent weeks? World events aside (which is saying a lot, considering the scope and magnitude of natural disasters that have occured), I'm speaking of deep, profound, personal loss, right here on the homefront.  Not those who've died of old age (although there have been three at church in as many weeks, after a long, long period free from funerals.)

In the last week, we had a friend lose his dad at age 48 to a heart attack while he slept.  Other friends whose perfectly healthy baby died at 38 weeks when his umbilical cord wrapped around his neck in the womb. People we know of who were killed when a drunk driver hit their motorcycle head-on on Telegraph Rd.  A Christian music superstar whose daughter was accidentally run over by her brother backing out of the driveway at their Nashville home.

It's just hard to believe, hard to accept, and especially, hard to get off my mind.  I feel weighted by this burden of sorrow.

Ironically, in these same times of devastation, some people continue to experience great joys of their own.  Yesterday other friends welcomed a daughter, and this weekend still others will marry.  The world keeps moving forward, even when one person may feel that in his life it has stopped completely.

The Bible says there's a season for everything, including both mourning and dancing.  I suppose we can only pray that God will strengthen those who feel they will never be strong again, and that he will bear their grief as only he can.  May he use us as vessels to bring peace and healing!

Trip to Naples

I know we haven't updated in awhile... with good reason!  We took a few days off to travel and soak up some sun.  Friends from church generously offered us their Naples condo, and we jumped at the opportunity to have a mini-vacation.  Even though we didn't do much besides lay on the beach and eat at incredible restaurants, it still had moments of excitement... starting with a middle-of-the-night drive from central Florida to the coast.  We chose to fly to Orlando under the guise that tickets were less pricey, but deep down this decision was made because we wanted to justify spending a day at Disney World, our favorite place.  Our flight arrived in Orlando at 10:30pm on Thursday, May 8, and knowing it was a 3.5 hour drive to Naples, I figured we'd get in around 2:30am after picking up our luggage and a car.  Well--as of course any seasoned traveler knows, these things NEVER take as short a time as we would hope, and by the time we left the rental car place (in a brand-new Prius Hybrid... so nice!), it was already nearly midnight.  We'd never eaten dinner, so Jus pulled off the freeway at an IHOP, which turned out to be directly next to the Downtown Disney entrance.  After finishing our late-night breakfast, we took a quick drive around Mickey's kingdom (asking ourselves why we were about to drive three additional hours when clearly we were already at the Happiest Place on Earth) and finally got on the road at 1:20am.  Three long hours later, we pulled into a sprawling condominium metropolis that housed at least five different complexes... and it took us an additional 20 minutes to locate ours.  Talk about a long night!  At that point, we were questioning whether our decision was worth it... and as you'll see... we luckily found that YES, absolutely it was. 

Anyway, this is already going to be the longest post ever because I have a bunch of photos and even a video clip to follow, so I'll try to speed it along.  Basically, we layed on the beach for three straight days, enjoying a packed lunch of Boar's Head cracked pepper turkey sandwiches with Muenster cheese, pretzles, and grapes, and spent each evening exploring Naples' beautiful architecture and landscaping, fabulous dining and shops, and deep historical roots.  All in all, it was a vacation right up our alley. 

Here starts the photographic tour.  Our beautiful beach, and the Naples Pier several blocks off (built in 1888 by the town's first settlers):

Us on the pier:

Vergina, a great Italian restaurant on the downtown strip where we ate our second night.  Everything in Naples is beautifully lit at night, and all the restaurants have live entertainment!

Enjoying key lime pie at Yabba, also our second night (we had dessert at a different place each night so as to maximize our dining experience... haha): 

Some of Naples' stunning homes... this first one is right on the ocean.

Jus on the beach one evening when we tried to catch the sunset... unfortunately it dipped behind the haze and never came back out.

Me the same night... this is barely a half hour after I had finished getting ready.  Can you believe what the humidity did to my hair in that short amount of time?  It happened every night... Naples' natives MUST have some special hair products we midwesterners know nothing about.

Dinner our third night at the Old Naples Pub.  This was by far our favorite meal, and it was just burgers!  Such a great atmosphere.

On Monday morning we packed up and headed back for our day at Disney World.  First we hit up Downtown Disney (12pm):

Then Magic Kingdom (1:30pm):

We left Magic Kingdom at 5pm for the park formerly known as MGM (now Disney's Hollywood Studios).  There we didn't take many pictures because we were too busy speeding around to our favorite rides and attractions!  We made it onto Tower of Terror four times before running (literally) out the gates to make our 9:30pm dinner reservation at Narcoossee's at the Grand Floridian.  

Narcoossee's is located on the shores of the Seven Seas lagoon, facing Magic Kingdom, where nightly fireworks go off at 10pm.  We were late, had to change in the car, and ran in pretty flustered... until one of those amazing Disney staff members led us to our table, which turned out to be the best seat in the house.  10 minutes later, the lights in the restaurant went down and music filled the air as fireworks hit the sky above Cinderella Castle.  It was one of our best Disney moments EVER!  And surprise, surprise... dinner was phenomenal.  Here we are outside Narcoossee's:

And finally, the video below is Justin giving a little play-by-play of the action, although, since it was during the fireworks and the aforementioned lights were off, you can't really see him at all.

                                            

Our flight left at 6:15 the next morning, so after finishing at Narcoossee's we spent a long night wandering Disney property (and sleeping in the car in the parking lot of the Boardwalk Resort) before heading to the airport at 3:30am.  Still totally worth it.  It was JUST what we needed!

Now... back to reality.  :)

Happy Birthday Mom & Dad!

We had a pretty fun weekend celebrating both of my parents' birthdays... my dad's was yesterday (May 3) and my mom's is today (May 4). They're one year and one day apart in age... and this year was extra-special because my mom turned the big 5-0! We surprised her with dinner at Bravo on Thursday night, which was organized entirely by Jim Arnett himself, planning his first-ever event. It turned out so well he may want to consider going into business. :)

When my mom got to the restaurant, she thought she was meeting just our immediate family for dinner. However, the surprise included our entire family and all of her wonderful work buddies. It was also Logan's first birthday party... and as you may be able to see in this first picture, he was beyond himself with excitement!

Seriously, how cute are they? My mom was shocked to hear all about how my dad pulled it off--although the biggest surprise was just the fact that he was able to keep the secret!

My grandpa said, "I wouldn't miss this for anything... I was there 50 years ago and I'm still here today!" Keith then chimed in, saying... "Aunt Deb, I just realized that Logan is as close to your age as you are to 100!"

Mom, Justin, Jason, Steph, Christina (my dad's youngest sister), her husband Brian, me, and Dad... also our delicious appetizers and dinner menus. :)

Morgan just started playing the clarinet at school. She learned Happy Birthday just for the occasion and did a GREAT job with it! We were all pretty impressed, especially that she played it in front of all those people.

Erin, me, and John. We were in a private room and the staff was fabulous. They really took care of us and helped to make it such a memorable night. Our family has always been big on spending birthdays together, and now that we're all a little older, it's nice to be able to go out to a nice restaurant and spend an evening just kicking back and relaxing with great food and conversation.

Friday we went back to Livonia for pizza and presents. Justin and I got my parents a personalized address embosser from Expressionery.com--and now I want one for myself! It's a pretty cool little toy!

On a more serious note... I know I've been kind of sappy lately, posting about being proud of Justin and everything, so if you want to get out before the cheese starts, this is fair warning. The thing that really made this weekend special was just the idea that we were able to celebrate the lives of two people who inspire and encourage us (and so many others) daily. Both of my parents work so hard and give so much of themselves without asking anything in return--a rare trait--and having the opportunity to do something nice for them really just fills me with joy. It's awesome to hear people say what great parents we have, and how they've blessed their lives, and on and on. It never gets old! And I have to say, although they're now both officially "over the hill" ... it still doesn't seem like they ever get old, either (I'm thankful for those genes!). :)

We love you, Mom and Dad! Happy birthday, and thank you for being such amazing people!

Great job Jus!

Today marks the last day of the semester for Justin, and I have to give him props. Most of you probably know that he's taken some classes over the last year, prereqs for a future pursuit... and today he took his final final. Since this is our blog and I can write whatever I want, it seemed like this would be a good opportunity to publicly declare how proud I am of him!

In the fall Justin took two classes, both with labs... and we quickly realized what an adjustment it is to get back into "student mode" after five years off. (Side note, how has it possibly been five years already?! Don't get me started on that!) Anyway, he worked his tail off and did great in both classes. This semester he took THREE, and again, two were with labs--eight class periods a week, in addition to work, City Mission, me, life, etc (I know I'm super low-maintenance, but I did still require some attention once in awhile... haha). The back-and-forth was a big commitment, but the time spent studying, laboring over homework, and meeting for group projects was the real killer. But he did it, and nailed it!

I'm encouraged knowing there will never be another semester like this, at least with as great a time commitment. The work will get more difficult, but time-wise, we've gotten over the biggest hurdle, which is a great feeling. Today Justin's head is filled with knowledge neither of us could have imagined nine months ago. He now knows crazy things about biology and anatomy that have made me realize I'm not quite as smart as I used to believe! :)

So anyway... (in case he ever happens to read this--he keeps saying maybe he'll write something sometime, but I'm not holding my breath)... you're the best, bud, and I'm so proud!  

Weekend project and popcorn coma

As I think I've said, this will be our third spring/summer in this house, and despite the nice deck and big backyard, we'd yet to get any patio furniture.  This is mostly because we couldn't find anything we really loved, within reason... and also we refinished the deck last summer and thought we should wait until after that was done to put furniture out there.  Anyway, my parents offered us an old set of theirs, which had been green and pink flowered 10 years ago and is now super faded green and pink flowered. :)  Not exactly what we were looking for... especially since our house is on a corner, so a lot of people go by the backyard each and every day.  However, after much looking around both in stores and online, we found chairs and an umbrella we liked, and finally decided to take the green metal table from my parents and do a little painting project.  Exhibit A:

A bit of sanding, three cans of spray paint, and two hours later, ta-da:

And now, the new and improved deck:

Finally!  We love it... it turned out so well.  Although, note to self: spray painting can be hard work, specifically on the digits holding down that little trigger!  My fingers are still a little numb.  But the paint matches perfectly... thank you Lowes!

A little side story... for St. Patrick's Day this year, one of our print vendors (Shamrock Solutions, hence why the occasion is celebrated with gifts) sent us a tin of popcorn.  Now, my job does not come with a lot of perks, but every once in awhile something like this will show up and bring a little joy to the day.  Anyway, upon receipt of this tin, we expected it to be filled with those predictable three compartments of cardboard-y tasting plain/cheese/caramel popcorn, but we opened it to find something even worse: all plain.  Until we took the first handful.  It tasted like perfect movie popcorn!  And even better... seven weeks later it STILL tastes like perfect movie popcorn!

I'm not normally a snacker during the day, especially in the morning, but let me tell you that every day since it arrived, at exactly 11am, I've stopped for a little popcorn break.  Elliot's had a bit here and there, and so have Kyle and a few sporadic visitors.  But by and large, I've eaten this entire tin by myself.  I even wore all the paper off the twist tie, down to just a little metal string.  It gives me a real sense of accomplishment--or maybe that's just guilt.  Anyway, here is a picture taken last Friday:

Woo!  Nailed it!

Logan is here!

Finally!  We're so excited that sweet Logan is here safe and sound.  Erin was a rock star and went through her entire labor at home, in the middle of the night, with no medication, after being sent home from the hospital at midnight.  By the time she and John went back in at 5am, she was (unknowingly) fully dialated and ready to deliver!  Logan was born at 6:14am, before ANY other family could even get to the hospital.  When I arrived at 8am, he and Erin were both all cleaned up and relaxing in the room.  So quick!

He is precious as can be, teeny at 6lbs 2oz and 19.5 inches long.  While Erin was pregnant he was pretty calm... never much moving around... and he kept that up today.  He just slept and slept, no wiggling or fussing or crying or anything.  The only time we heard him make a peep was when a nurse took his blood, and even though it was just for a minute--it was the sweetest cry ever.

Here is a rare instance of open eyes... this was right after the blood taking (at only four hours old!).  Oh, and there is a FULL head of dark hair under that little cap!

Doesn't Erin look great?!

Great-grandpa holding Logan for the first time...

Justin bonding...

And me with my new little bud!

It was quite an exciting day for all of us!  Crazy how you wait and wait and wait, and then the day just comes and here he is with us, forever.  It really is such a miracle.

In other news... there actually isn't much, because we've been purposely keeping things low-key in anticipation of this arrival.  But in case you're wondering about our opinions on certain things, we're relieved that the Tigers finally won a game, thrilled that our favorite Office buddies were back to entertain us tonight, and not happy at all that Michael Johns was just sent home on American Idol!

Opening Day

...in more ways than one.  First, yesterday was actually Opening Day, of course... a day Justin recently told me he gets more excited about than Christmas.  He is so funny when he talks about the Tigers.  I think the loves in his life go in this order... God, me, baseball, everything else. But during baseball season, that list might change order a little bit... although I think God always remains at the top.  You can guess how the others are rearranged. :)  Anyway, he had a lot of fun, and even though the season is now off to 0-2, Team Remsing is still preparing for a World Series title come fall.

This is a picture from last year, because this year I forgot to take one before he left.  Taking "opening day pictures" makes me feel nostalgic about the first day of school, when every year my mom took pictures of us in our new dresses my grandma would make. Seriously, that really happened.

Bringing up my grandma and the dress-making is a good transition into the second meaning of opening day... Opening Day of Spring in the Remsing house.  My grandma was a fabulous seamstress and taught me how to sew by making babydoll outfits, handkerchiefs, and clothing over the years.  These days I'm more interested in making things for my house, specifically curtains and pillows, and I've been sewing like crazy for the past week.  The quest for the light, airy feel of spring is now accomplished:

I didn't make the curtains (but on that note, only $9.99 at Ikea for the pair... can't beat that!), but the pillow covers were a feat.  The work was worth it, because I love them, and shocker... Justin loves them too. :) He keeps saying, "wow, it really is different in here," followed by, "I can't believe you actually made these."  It's not exactly "I love them" outright, but the sentiment is definitely there.

I also got springy new rugs:

And put this fabric down, covered by plexiglass, in the tray.  I really love this idea because it can be changed all the time at almost no cost!

Anyway, that's about it for now.  Today is a beautiful day, and with the sunlight streaming through those sheer linen curtains, it feels a lot like spring.  It's a little deceptive, actually... I don't think 45 degrees is quite warm enough to take a book out to the hammock, but now my house is tricking me into thinking it's time. :)